Get the whole magilla on Purim

Iran, Jews and deadly decrees are commemorated in an upbeat way this week, in particular on February 24, 2013 or the Jewish Year of 5773. Even as tensions continue in the Middle East over the nuclear situation, Purim, undeniably the most joyous holiday tradition on the Jewish calendar has rolled … [Read more...]

Voting – Message of the ballot box part 1

Before the claims of voter fraud due to panic at the polls coming out of the American elections process, there was voter suppression.... and outright denial of rights. Compare this historic account to the concern over the growth of 'minority' blocks that today can powerfully sway the vote in … [Read more...]

Do’s and don’ts for the first impressions you create

meet and greet and make a good first impression

Did the September school bells call you back to studies? to work? to networking opportunities and imprinting your first impressions on new people?  Check in to see how you fared with this post that first appeared in Helena's column in The Afro News entitled: Communication Culture. The buzz … [Read more...]

5 Survivor Tips Life Has Taught Me!

Joyce Rosario, Australian fitness blogger shares tips on Helena Kaufman's blog

Need a refresher on how to manage life more productively through better messages to yourself? Guest blogger from Australia, Joyce Rosario tells you how to get on with it! We have all been through stressful and trying situations in our lives at one point or another, whether it’s a loved one who … [Read more...]

9 Lessons I learned in Neil Armstrong’s moment

Neil Armstrong official photo

Neil Armstrong truly went where no man had gone before when he became the first human to touch down and then walk our moon's surface. He’s been a part of my life since I was in grade school. I had joined the many millions around the world who watched on all our black and white TV screens … [Read more...]

D-Day Message and Memories Crystallized in Pop Culture

Anniversaries come and go, but celluloid is forever. It replays events and emotions. While digital media often replaces film as the material that documents our days, cherished classics continue to depict life as it was. To mark the D-Day anniversary, today's post reprints the 'best bets' for … [Read more...]

Eating Up Brand Messaging in Our Food Choices

Contemplating brand messages and how we ingest them in our consumer culture came to me well before any consideration of breakfast today. It landed via tweet from a marketing colleague now super wellness coach, Carol Hutchinson. Her post led me to read “HartBeat.” This edition of The Hartman … [Read more...]

People Connect through Conversation

How to improve spoken English for networking and better conversations by Coach Helena Kaufman

More in our series of answers to questions on acquiring English conversation skills that help people connect comfortably to people at work or in the community. Q: How can I improve my English? Language evolves and grows to adapt to the group that is living it – age, occupation and peer … [Read more...]

Interpersonal Skills and Clear Messages

Presenting yourself at networking or meet and greet events by Helena Kaufman

In the previous post we explored the combo of “factual intelligence” and “emotional intelligence” that you apply to be more effective in your messaging to others. The question posed by a reader was, “How do I communicate better to succeed?” “So, clarity in our own minds is the … [Read more...]

Questions about Conversation Answered from Helena’s Mail Bag

Communication questions in English conversation by Helena Kaufman

Questions on communications tumbled out of the mail bag during this season's spring clean up. Similar concerns about being seen, heard and understood were shared with me at seminars and private consultations this year. Some were taken from my Communication Culture Column in The Afro News. Common … [Read more...]