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Father’s Day Happy and Fraught

A blue cup with coffee in it to reflect on Father's Day
Taking time to reflect

It’s an odd time for me to start my year of ‘reactive blogging’. On Father’s Day of all moments. Daily, I am triggered to memory lane. It happens with the news, my own mind, social media posts, and random sights and sounds. Finally, I begin to write about any and all triggers that assail me without warning.

Really, I’ve nothing to lose by starting ‘messy.’ There is no strategy for the content of the post I share today. No template for the blog itself. Super out of line for a professional writer who blogs for her corporate and health & fitness clients.

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Go for the whole magilla on Purim & listen to the “Megilla” aka Book of Esther

Mmmm cookies for Purim called Hamentaschen
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Read on for recipe

Iran, Jews and deadly decrees are commemorated in an upbeat way this week. Coming early at us in this Jewish Year of 5782, Purim arrives the night of March 16 and lasts with laughter and celebration well into March 17.

Even as tensions continue in the Middle East and are heightened now with what is war in Europe and renewed nuclear concerns, we dip into, for the sake of my story for you today, into the once awesome Persian empire of the 4th century BCE. It extended over 127 lands and is the site on which the Purim story unfolds. Purim is undeniably the most joyous holiday tradition on the Jewish calendar. And, it’s HERE again!!  Here’s your Purim primer according to Kaufman…..

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Contact lens use in the time of COVID-Part 3 of 3 on eye care

On behalf of contact lens wearers, I had one final question for my Vancouver-based optometrist, Dr. Janey Yee. I do not wear contacts myself.  I’ve given birth, considered the challenge of walking on coals, and did successfully certify as a scuba diver. Putting a little disc into my eye area, myself? Can’t. Here’s what I found out for you though. 

Dr. Yee, are there special precautions for contact lens wearers in these COVID care times? Any advice for all of us with prescriptive eyewear?

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When you can’t escape the blue light -Part 2 of 3 on eye care – the Boost Zone edition

Finally, we can see light at the end of the tunnel out of our COVID-created caves. Restrictions are being lifted in British Columbia. Vaccines are en route. We can look forward – that is if we can see past the blue light emanating from our ubiquitous screens. After months in front of my work, my social, my edutainment screens, my eyes needed ‘re-hab.’ So, I turned for advice on how we can protect our eyes and improve our overall performance to my personal optometrist in Vancouver, Dr. Janey Yee.

As a writer and content creator tied to my screens, my eyes are engaged, a lot. Those work hours can send a message of fatigue to the brain at the entry point, the eyes. It can also filter a false sense of overall fatigue to the rest of the body when I most need to feel focused and energized. To top it off, like most of us, I was Zoomed-Skyped-Google Hang’d –Out!

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Vancouver optometrist’s top eye care tips for our continuously connected selves – Part I

Care of our eyes and preservation of our sight is essential if we wish to live and work well in our current tech-connected world. Plus, our year in the safety of our COVID caves, called on our eyes to perform to the max as we all huddled around any number of blue light-emitting screens. Combined, they kept us sane, social, and solvent, hopefully. Now, how to care for this precious resource?

You might start, as I did, with a comprehensive, eye exam at your optometrist. In this post, Dr. Janey Yee @180 Optometry and Eye Wear answered questions I wanted to share with you about issues and eye care that we must know, given the intensity of screen use we are committed to since COVID accelerated our dependency on them.   

A colleague laughs at my COVID-inspired code for too much time spent creating content for clients, sitting in on video meetings, and researching online. I call it frying my eyeballs. I’m not proud of it. I do my best to keep the cookery to a minimum. But what can we do?  

No matter your choice of device or the technology we use to work, to socialize, to learn, or to seek escapist entertainment – we can’t stop. Can we?

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Mouthing Holiday Greetings from Behind Your Mask Hesitatingly? Tis The Season!

Nutcracker Soldiers stand up for holiday greetings

 

happy holidays red door mat to help step into the holiday season with warmth and confidence
Step into the season. Communicate with warmth and confidence

Happy Holidays. Happy Hanukkah, however you spell it. Merry Christmas although my older British friends prefer Happy Christmas. How do I best greet a Kwanzaa celebrant??  I think I got the season’s first festival of lights right, Diwali, or is it Deepavali?  Solstice anyone??  Oy vey. Perhaps this repost of my 2014 “Communication Culture” column in The Afro News MIGHT shed light???

Original post below… Please share YOUR greeting suggestions!

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Simply start now whether you count up, count down or count on a better year

This isn’t a blog about resolutions, or grand visions or a post on lists of lists.

It’s a start. That’s the best you can do on any intention or mission.

It’s a conversation with myself and I’m sharing, But hey, YOU might find practical tips embedded in the posts. After all, I am a writer by profession. So, you can expect there to be, even unconsciously, education – information – and honourable mentions of techniques in overcoming paralysis and procrastination by summoning creativity and resilience. Not too tall an order I’ve written myself into, eh?

Just start.

And there’s no plan unless you count sitting down and doing something about that intention, daily.

So, while I might brainstorming with a mind map down the road- something you can do at a moment’s notice and by yourself, no matter what the time of day or night, the call to action for now is simply to START. I’ll try not to overthink the daily posts and just let myself be motivated by what comes my way each day.

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Coming out of our COVID created caves-healthier-chat with a chiropractor

woman at desk contemplating Writer wellness and creative longevity are bound to each other. Part 1 in a series of practical steps to sustaining personal health span and creative productivity

I sat a bit higher in my office chair and felt a flow of energy for a better business day as I spoke with Vancouver chiropractor, Dr. Matt Nelson. In the early weeks of the pandemic when we were asked to shelter in place, in-office visits to our daily healthcare providers stopped. Collectively, we settled into our COVID created caves.

Coming out of our Covid created caves means movement and attention to postureAs we sat in front of screens to work, to play, to learn and to stay connected with our business and social networks- – -we lost some power and gained some pains.  Bad habits snuck in. Our usual health sustaining routines seeped out.

With BC ‘opening up’ and our coming out, we’re looking to regain some of that strength to move about well and to live life – a bit better.

I asked Dr. Nelson for advice on caring for ourselves from a chiropractic perspective:

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Is an artist date with yourself the key to unlock more creativity?

A graphic of a woman's head in profile with a keyhole illuminated in the centre represents Just begin your writing journey and unlock your creativity

How was your date this weekend?

You know. That date with yourself that gifts you time to reconnect with yer own fine self?

Julia Cameron’s work in her book The Artist’s Way defines it as:  The Artist Date is a once-weekly, festive, solo expedition to explore something that interests you. The Artist Date need not be overtly “artistic”– think mischief more than mastery.

A blue cup of coffee reflecting the light for day 2 of the Fab 45 blogs challengeI have to say I instituted my own artist date LONG before I even heard of Julia Cameron. Maybe before she discovered her own way to such a program based on the small meetings of wild women writers seeking – something – together in her home?

My date night was on Wednesday. I referred to my Wednesdays as my own religious night. The irony of the phrase was not lost on Peter Warren, the highly rated morning host of a civic rabble rousing radio show at CJOB. Peter knew I was married to an atheist. Maybe he saw the value of my staking out my own time out to rediscover my creative self beyond all the roles I fulfilled.

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